Video: A Picture Of Me (Without You) by Lorrie Morgan Once in awhile I get in the mood to listen to some good old country music when I’m thinking about lost loves and what might have been. Here’s a classic from Lorrie Morgan from her Something in Red album. Let your imagination be the...
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If you have broken up with your boyfriend or girlfriend you are probably feeling terrific emotional pain some or all of the time. For this reason relationship expert TW (aka T Dub) Jackson has developed an effective means to deal with the mental and emotional pain of a relationship break up he calls the...
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Facing the Ugly Truth In my college and young adult years I had a number of break-ups that tore my heart out. I pined for one woman for twelve years, and even now thirty years later I sometimes get misty-eyed thinking about her. I didn’t want to face the ugly truth–sometimes getting back together...
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It May Seem Corny Now, But … Growing up in the sixties, I loved The Association for songs like Windy and Along Comes Mary. But frankly, I didn’t even know they had recorded Cherish until I broke up with my college girlfriend in 1972. I was heart-broken. I missed my girlfriend intensely, and wished...
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Here’s a short, poignant poem expressing the pain of a relationship break-up. The metaphor of summery heat and wintry chill convey a wealth of information about the emotions of the author, far more than you might expect from four short lines. The Video: “The Iceman’s Spear” by Don H. Morris The Poem: “The Iceman’s...
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Hi, Dreamers, Found a great blog post when Stumbling today (do you know about Stubmeupon?). It is 100 Ways to Say I Love You. Thought it might be helpful for people trying to reconcile with their ex. Remember, though, not to go overboard with this. Ya gotta mean it, and ya gotta use the...
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Is a boyfriend worth dying for? I saw that someone had asked this question recently, but I had no context for it. I assumed it was a woman, but I didn’t know for sure, and I didn’t know an age or any of the circumstances that would prompt someone to ask a question like...
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Break-up Myth #3: I love her, and I can’t live without her. Have you had a relationship break-up recently? Are you hurting so much it feels like the world has ended? The pain of a broken heart and a shattered dream is intense. It can be both physical and emotional. When the person you...
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Here are some relationship quotes taken from philosophers, statesmen, actors and actresses, humorists, scientists, and authors. Some are names you will recognize, some are probably names you’ve never heard before. But all have something of value you can glean, whether immediately or after thinking and wondering about them for awhile. We can all learn...
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A Sad Song on a Happy Day This is the saddest Christmas song for someone who has broken up with a girlfriend or boyfriend. Elvis captures the pain of a relationship breakup in his inimitable way. Remember as you listen that no matter how much your heart is hurting now, there is hope that...
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