Trying to save your relationship can be a very difficult thing to do. There is always the worry that you’ll make one wrong move and lose the person you love forever.

Unfortunately, what feels like the right thing to do, is often wrong. Most times we should follow the ‘counterintuitive path‘. When we feel like calling is when we should stay cool instead. When we feel like pouring our hearts out is when we should put a lid on it.

As a warning, you may have never seen the techniques you’re about to discover before. At first glance they may look and feel wrong. But rest assured, these techniques have been proven to be effective time and again in even what seems the most complicated situations.

Counterintuitive Technique #1

The first technique you need to use is to agree with and accept the fact that your ex has broken up with you. This can be very difficult to do and the chances are good that you will have a bit of an internal battle before you’re able to do so.

It can definitely help to understand why you need to accept the breakup, and how it can help you get back together. The main reason is because you need to give your ex time to respect and miss you again. The chances are that they are mad or upset with you at the moment, especially if you’ve beem nagging them about getting back together.

Counterintuitive Technique #2

The second technique you need to use is to cut off all communication. You’re probably about ready to close your browser right now! Hold on, because this technique really does work. It helps you to accept the breakup and is the action that shows your ex you are serious.

By not communicating you are allowing your ex time to miss you and time to get over the reasons for breaking up. This space will be good for your mental health as well, and will help you to think clearly. It also sets you up for the next technique.

Counterintuitive Technique #3

The next step is to plan an event where you two can reconnect. But there are many critical steps in between you cannot leave out! Discover all the counterintuitive and unconventional steps to get back with your ex.

In this brief video T.W. Jackson answers a question from a woman who purchased The Magic of Making Up System, an e-book/audio program for people who have recently had a relationship break-up. As T Dub explains in his e-book, you are always “training” other people how to treat you, whether you are doing so consciously or unconsciously. Often when we react unconsciously, without using effective couple communication principles, we end up reinforcing undesired behaviors.

For example, if your boyfriend promises to call at a certain time but actually calls a day or two later, it is natural to be irritated. But if this irritation is communicated negatively it can be like an electric shock. If this happens over and over your boyfriend will associate calling you with punishment, and may stop calling at all. A conscious response on your part can “train” your boyfriend to call when he says he will. The conscious re-training method can be used for many other behaviors as well. At its core is a brand-new way to think about the other person with respect and honor; the CRM is more than a trick to get others to do what you want them to do.

Want to learn how the conscious re-training method works in action? Watch the video and see!

Video: T.W. Jackson–How to Train Your Man

To learn more about the conscious re-training method and other techniques to get your ex back and enhance your relationship when you do, get The Magic of Making Up today. There’s a 2-month money-back gurantee.